Blaise Louis Raspanti

Blaise Louis Raspanti, a psychologist and psychotherapist, died peacefully in his home on September 14, 2026 at the age of 74. He led a life full of adventure and whimsy and is remembered fondly for his intelligence, creativity, irrepressible spirit, and remarkable ability to read and empathize with people of all walks of life. After his retirement, he pursued his life long obsession with hair by becoming a cosmetologist who delighted in making people look and feel good about themselves. He enjoyed meeting new friends, trying new things, and defying expectations.

Blaise was born on February 25, 1952 in Brooklyn, New York. He was a diligent student, often the first to turn in meticulously completed homework assignments. Despite his risky handlebar bicycle riding, he was deeply protective, spiritual, and caring. He was a talented musician who could play any instrument he picked up - accordion, guitar, or saxophone, with confidence and character. Blaise held 2 Masters degrees from University of North Carolina at Charlotte. One master's degree in Psychology and another master's degree in Education. He received straight A's during his graduate studies and aced his state exam. Blaise was considered a living legend among his peers and colleagues in Charlotte, NC. Some would say he was a local celebrity who always took the time to get to know his "fans". He was a beloved figure in the 1970's and 1980's. Marching loudly through the halls, wearing airplane pajamas beneath his wool suit, "Mr. Raspanti" created space for kids to be seen, heard, and empowered to face their challenges.

Blaise worked 37 years for the Charlotte Mecklenburg School system. Working with multiple elementary, middle, and high schools. He was not (just) a counselor, he was a Psychologist by title which requires 4 years of post graduate studies and yearly continued education hours. During his career, Blaise founded a private practice for after-school play-based therapy called, Theraplay. His innovative approach to therapeutic games like hot seat, would you rather, and troll-play (role play but using troll dolls to act out scenarios) were big hits at Theraplay and among the college students he later taught at Central Piedmont Community College. He hosted countless living room dance parties and front lawn laser tag tournaments. Forever young at heart, Blaise lived for boat rides, reggae festivals, and making people laugh.

Blaise's charm and charisma were magnetic. On his motorcycle, covered in tattoos, wearing his signature steampunk style clothing, Blaise was a champion for self-expression. He spoke his mind freely and encouraged others to do the same. He found beauty in the brokenness of trinkets and people and loved them exactly as they were. He never hesitated to tell his loved ones how proud he was of them or how much he cared for them. He will be greatly missed by so many who knew and loved him. His bold and daring choices remind us to live life to the fullest. May his resounding advice inspire us to unleash our inner children and "let the games begin!"

Blaise is preceded in death by his parents, Matthew Raspanti and Madeline Mary Bocina, and partner, Deb. Blaise is survived by his son, Ryan; his daughter, Madeline and her two children, Aliya and Levi. Blaise is also survived by his brother, Joseph; sister-in-law, Joyce; niece, Andrea and her family; nephew, Matthew; cousin, Maria and her husband, José; his stepmother, Barbara; cousin, Andre Raspanti, his wife, Clarissa, and their daughter, Catherine; cousin, Marc Raspanti, his wife, Wendy, and their children, Jason, Justine, and Alexa; and first wife, Patricia. He leaves behind many second cousins, extended family members, and his pet chihuahua, Lulu.

Trinity Memorial Centers Funeral Home (423-723-8177) is honored to serve the family, online condolences can be shared with the family on our website at www.trinitymemorialcenters.com.